A new report by researchers examining the UK care system has shed light on what experts describe as a deeply troubling survival strategy among some of the most vulnerable children. According to the findings, a number of young people in residential therapeutic care are deliberately harming themselves to avoid being moved out of the facilities they rely on for stability and support. The threat of being discharged when they improve or when they turn 18—often into adult services that are either unavailable or inadequate—has driven them to extreme behaviours.
Abi Booth, a psychotherapist who works directly with children and young people in the care system, said some are in a “catastrophic situation” where they feel compelled to make themselves more ill in order to stay in care. “They have learned that getting better or getting older means being abandoned,” she said. “So they harm themselves to prove they are still unwell enough to deserve a place.”
The research highlights a systemic failure in the transition from child to adult care services. Many young people leaving the care system at 18 face a sudden loss of support, often with insufficient housing, mental health services, or financial aid. This “cliff edge” has been documented for years, but the new findings suggest it is now actively harming children’s recovery and wellbeing.
The report calls for immediate reforms, including extending care and mental health support beyond age 18 and ensuring that improvements in a child’s condition do not result in the removal of services. It also urges better training for staff to recognise such survival behaviours and to address the underlying fear of abandonment.
Child welfare advocates have welcomed the research but say the problem is not new. They argue that underfunding of children’s social care and mental health services has created a system where young people must compete for limited resources—often by demonstrating the highest level of need.
The UK government has acknowledged the challenges facing the care system and has announced reviews into care leavers’ support. However, critics say action has been slow, and the new research underscores the urgency of moving beyond inquiries to concrete changes.
For anyone affected by these issues, support is available. In the UK, Papyrus can be contacted on 0800 068 4141, and Samaritans on 116 123. In the US, the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline is available. In Australia, Lifeline is 13 11 14. Other international helplines can be found at befrienders.org.