A wrong set of keys: how a chance meeting sparked a lasting friendship between an educator and a quantum physicist

From a failed rental inspection in Glebe to nine years as housemates, Bee Solomon and Dr Xanthe Croot reflect on their bond.

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A chance encounter at a rental inspection in Glebe in 2009, when the real estate agent brought the wrong keys, led to an enduring friendship between educator Bee Solomon, 38, and quantum physicist Dr Xanthe Croot, 36. The two women, both then in their second year at the University of Sydney, began talking outside a rundown terrace and soon became housemates, living together for nine years.

Dr Croot recalled that they recognised each other from St Barnabas on Broadway, a church they both attended. Ms Solomon had to rush to another inspection, but offered to share her thoughts on that property if Dr Croot gave her opinion on the one they had just viewed. Later, Ms Solomon contacted Dr Croot on Facebook about a nicer but more expensive house, assuming that because Dr Croot was a law student living at St Andrew's College, she came from a wealthy family. In fact, Dr Croot was on a scholarship and her family ran a struggling farm affected by drought.

They moved in together and remained housemates for the next nine years, with a rotating cast of flatmates. Dr Croot described coming home from the lab to find Ms Solomon and others watching "The Bachelorette", and firing off emails to the producers complaining about the show's sexism. Ms Solomon threw dinner parties with fairy lights and home-cooked dishes, often playing guitar and singing, and had many creative friends. Before dates, she would ask Dr Croot for fashion advice.

Ms Solomon lives with a chronic, complex health condition. When she first fell ill, she went from running marathons to spending months in bed. Dr Croot would drag her mattress into Ms Solomon's room so they could talk whenever Ms Solomon felt able.

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Analysis

Why This Matters

  • The story highlights how chance encounters can lead to deep, supportive relationships that endure through life changes and health crises.
  • It underscores the importance of friendship as a source of practical and emotional support, especially when one person faces a chronic illness.
  • The contrast between the two women's backgrounds -- a scholarship student from a farming family and an educator with a health condition -- illustrates how shared values can bridge different circumstances.

Background

The story is set in Sydney's Glebe neighbourhood, near the University of Sydney, where both women were studying in 2009. Dr Croot went on to become a quantum physicist; Ms Solomon became an educator. Their friendship began during a period of tight rental markets and typical student housing searches. The narrative is told from Dr Croot's perspective in first-person, capturing their domestic life and the impact of Ms Solomon's undisclosed chronic health condition.

Key Perspectives

Xanthe Croot (quantum physicist): Emphasises Ms Solomon's kindness, creativity, and resilience. She credits Ms Solomon with creating a warm, welcoming home and notes that Ms Solomon's support during her own difficulties was invaluable. "I've honestly never known anyone as kind as Bee," she says. Bee Solomon (educator): Not directly quoted, but her actions show initiative in reaching out after the inspection, building a lively household, and maintaining the friendship despite her illness. Broader relevance: The story offers a model for how friendships can adapt when one person's health changes, without being defined by the illness.

What to Watch

  • Ms Solomon's ongoing health journey and how the friendship continues to evolve as both women's lives and careers develop.
  • Whether this kind of personal narrative inspires further reflection on the role of serendipity in forming lasting bonds, particularly among young adults in transient urban environments.

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